Archive for the 'Self Improvement' Category

Finding a Job Using the Net to Your Advantage

Friday, December 18th, 2009

The Internet offers huge opportunities for a job seeker, but also presents several potential challenges. It also adds great complexities, and a lot more things to think about…and be mindful of.

Job hunting needs to be thought of as a personal, extremely targeted marketing operation where you are the product. Your resume is an ad. Your extended network of contacts is your lead generating machine.

So where does the net fit in? At AA-Careers, we just posted a job on a popular job board and got more than 650 responses in a calendar week. For one position. That’s increased job hunting competition.

Had the right person contacted us before we posted the ad, they could have gotten the job prior to getting all that competition. How? By knowing an employee at our company who became aware of the job prior to posting. Everyone knew of the job for at least 8 days before it was posted. Who in your network might know of a job that’s coming available soon?

Be sure to check your application matierials carefully! When we did an analysis of the 650 resumes, we found a large number of errors. 63% of the applicants were easily removed with a swift triage process. How? The same way any manager would. By passing over resumes where the objective didn’t match our job posting. By eliminating prospects whose cover letters gave us causes not to hire them, like "I know I’m overqualified but I really need a job". By eliminating prospects whose documents that didn’t open properly. And by rejecting candidates who didn’t trouble to spell check their cover letter and/or resume.

So the great news is that job sites give you a sense of what companies are hiring, and for what kinds of positions. But once those positions are posted, the competition is intense. You can still compete, if you have a well thought out resume, designed to appeal directly and clearly to the recruiter. And if you have practiced interviewing – so you don’t stumble at a critical point.

Another potential problem to be aware of is how quickly you can be checked out on the net. As we Googled several job hunters, we ran into some Facebook comments that were in questionable taste. Nothing insane, but enough to sway our thoughts about who to employ.

AA-Careers provides a all-inclusive set of services for Bay Area job seekers, providing our clients a personal career consultant, a managed job hunting campaign, modern tools like a personal website, video, highly targeted resume, and much more. Let us know if we can help you.

Be careful out there, and good hunting!

Managing My Monthly Budget: a Secure Programme for Financial Peace of Mind

Friday, November 27th, 2009

If you are reading this, you’re probably experiencing slight financial stress and seeking for a way to gain control of your finances. The best way to do this is to develop a monthly budget and sticking to it. A sound budget is a fundamental tool for managing money, one that has allowed me to live well even on limited funds. Organising my monthly budget is one of the most important things I do every month, and it has allowed me to systematically meet all expenses, grow my savings, and reduce debt.

I map out my budget for the coming month on about the 20th of the current month. This will prepare me with my expenditures in the coming month. It’s not a good idea to produce a budget after getting paid because, too often, that flush feeling of having a paycheck results to uneccessary and spontaneous spending before the paycheck ever reaches the bank.

Managing my personal budget includes listing all the things that must be paid that month like mortgage/rent, utilities, and other essentials like insurance, car loan repayment, transportation costs, and phone. These are the things I have pay to keep a comfortable roof over my head and carry on earning money. I like to pad these essentials to create “money back” after paying the bills and, if costs increase circumstantially, I’m always covered.

Next, my budget is subjected to a list of discretionary things I need to cover but could live without if absolutely necessary. For example, donations, credit card repayments and monthly sving deposits. These things are also necessary, but in case of emergency I could put them off for a short time. By giving credit card companies the maximum instead of the minimum, I keep my credit score high and my debt low.

My budget will not include the cost of food, clothing, or entertainment. These expenses get covered by what’s left over and that’s that. Some months involve lots of beans and rice, slow-cooker meals, free or cheap entertainment, and only one inexpensive piece of clothing . This strategy of handling my monthly budget has worked out very well over the long term as long as I honor it religiously.

Hair Loss and Self-confidence

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

Although my dad had a receding hairline, I never believed hair loss would happen to me. My hairline begun receding shortly before my thirtieth birthday. I was frightened and in denial that I was losing my hair. I even started losing hair on the rear of my head.

For the first time in my life, I felt old. I felt like the best years of my life were behind me. I even ceased seeing girls. My love life was nearly non-existent. There was one girl I had been dating casually and even though I liked her, I just stopped returning her calls. I realised that I hadn’t found the woman of my dreams with a full head of hair so there was no way I was going to find somebody with my growing bald spot. I was too dismayed to even try having a loving relationship.

Hair loss transformed me in to a dismayed loner, I was always a confident and socialable guy. I was determined to get the problem addressed and began searching for a remedy. I tried plenty of hair loss treatments that are available in the counter. I have tried every single treatment and solution accessible from the chemist, nothing worked. After that, I just stopped trying for a while. It was a real low point in my life. I even stopped going out with my friends, I was so lonely.

As Luck Would Have It, one night a good friend of mine took me out for a few drinks. The first thing he noticed about me was my mood, he knew that the hair loss has affected how I felt. He told me about the hair loss studio in the city. My friend had gone there for hair loss treatments and had been impressed with the results. I was even more impressed. My friend had a full head of hair and there was no sign of hair loss. He made me promise to give them a go and I agreed.

I could not have been happier with the hair loss studio recommended to me. Only after a few treatments, I had a full head of hair again. The hair loss studio not only helped me regained my hair but also my confidence.

Getting My Budget Back in Shape

Thursday, October 22nd, 2009

It can be very challenging for any family unit to manage their monthly budget and making sure that their expenditure is in line with the household income. Not managing your finances can often lead to things getting out of hand. Particularly in these challenging economic times, it is always a challenge balancing a full time job and taking care of a family. But it’s not alright to let the family’s resources go to waste, which is why you need to seek out some budget assistance. How do I get my budget back in control? It’s all about controlling your spending.

The importance of managing my budget

Most people do not understand the importance until it is too late, but having a budget and following the plan is the most important thing you can do. Lots of people question why their budget does not work in the long term. In summary, if you don’t have a plan for where your money is going, then you will have to struggle for resolutions at the end of every month. One thing that every household needs to do is take a look at mybudget to get an expert opinion on their financial situation. With any budget designing, always try to be as prepared as possible. As the head of the family, you owe it to yourself and to your family to be a reliable steward.

The challenges associated with organising my budget

As mentioned, putting a budget together is not an easy task. How much should we put aside for food? What about emergency money for unforseen expenses? These are questions that you need to address to think about all sorts of monthly costs. This is where building my budget can get so troublesome, and I’m sure it’s the same with you. With all of the strain affiliated with working a job, it can often be easy to let these things slip by the wayside. After all, how important is just one bill? It is obviously very important, and if you want your family’s finances to be in order, then you should most certainly use a great program like the one found at mybudget.

All in all, budgeting is a serious challenge and it can sometimes cause uneccessary tension. With the resources at your disposal today, you can put your family’s finances into an organised plan and you can follow through with that plan totally. It has definitely helped with my budget, and it should do the same for yours.

Interview with Yogi Sean: "Experience of Wholeness"

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

Yogi Sean: When we did the previous talk about the wrathful deity, I was really strong by saying, “You want to do some other practices before you get into this because you want to have the foundation.” What you want is a sense of Continuity of Being. In other words, if you’re still clinging to defining yourself based upon the circumstances of your life, and you embrace change as your deity of choice, as your entraining image. In other words, as the image you’re going to entrain your consciousness, your awareness to; then you’re in deep doo doo. Again, if you’re identifying who you are with the circumstances of your life, and you begin to do a practice that basically reflects change, then what that’s going to do is jumble up the circumstances of your life.

When you’re angry, when you’re really pissed, you see the world around you with that sense of being pissed off. And you even see, as you said, other people getting mad at you.

Interviewer: Right, there’s this sense that they’re mad at me even though I haven’t even checked to see if that’s true.

Yogi Sean: That’s because you’ve taken on the persona of an Angry Man. That’s your image. That’s the tonality of your being. This is complex stuff, even though we’re doing it from a very simple perspective; we’re going from a circle.

Interviewer: It’s a very simple, very elegant practice, but very potent it seems.

Yogi Sean: It is, because it is offering the option, the choice, to focus on Wholeness rather than focus on multiplicity. The beauty of the circle is that it’s so simple it allows for flow. In this sense, flow can be multiplicity, but there’s a sense of continuity in it all. You use the term elegance; there’s a beauty and elegance about it.

So what happens is that over time, working with the circle in fact, I would say that if you or the readers experiment with the practice, they will actually find a sense of continuity in their world around them that didn’t seem to be there before, because the continuity is happening within them.

Interviewer: Will I notice that continuity while I am doing the practice, or after the practice, or both?

Yogi Sean: Actually, what you’re going to notice while you’re doing the practice is the continuity of the circle. But then as you say, “Okay, well, I’m done,” and you get up and you’re walking around and doing things in the day, you will have an inner reflection that says, “Hmm. There’s a sense of Wholeness about what’s going on here. This is cool and amazing.”

Reclaiming Your Forgotten Look with Lace Front Human Hair Wigs

Saturday, July 11th, 2009

We never imagined the breathtakingly human Amelia Sharp, my life-long soul mate, might someday wear lace wigs. Her iconic long black hair flowed in sync with her attitude. Get this. Miss Prim n’ Proper is still known because of her hair. Not many in town think to notice that she relies on human hair wigs. They work well.

Back in the day as young girls in Arizona, we once knocked ‘em dead. Of course, until her women’s hair loss started acting up and she became nearly bald. I suggested a few lace wigs. But you know, she shrugged it off. Even on bad days she aggressively showcased her attitude.

At our alma mater’s roller hockey tournament, we flirted with the crowd till a guy on other team clumsily kicked the orb (or whatever they play with) at us. Quick on her feet, she went to grab it and her bandana jumped from her head, uncovering her hair (or lack thereof). Like nothing happened, she tossed the ball into the goal. Attitude, did I mention she’s got it?

That said, who can be invincible at all times? One time we got together for a cookie baking marathon, the day she grabbed my arm and confided that she opts to go bald as a statement. She could never look at lace front human hair wigs, even if she would wear them. At that moment the punk stopped talking and asked that I should think nothing more of it. I didn’t know what to say.

I wanted to help so bad. Later on, I IM’d with her about taking care of this wig problem. Finally the two of us arrived at the perfect solution: we’ll think of wigs as fashion, and we love fashion. Wigs for the both of us, on me!

We had a great time, bewildered by the possibilities. She didn’t realize that wigs are so confidence inspiring for a lot of people. These synthetic wigs complimented her natural beauty. I arranged a comprehensively creative wardrobe to match my wig. We stand together, if you haven’t heard. Last Christmas she sent me her thanks for reuniting, and disclosed that it fosters a fresh spirit that she’d forgotten. It’s a relief to witness little miss attitude strut her stuff like never before. She’s a better person, with the same confidence.

How Hair Loss Impacts Your Confidence

Friday, June 26th, 2009

Infrequently do we find teenagers and young adults in their early 20’s with spots of hair disappeared from their scalps. The majority of hair loss in men occurs in their 30’s & 40’s, however it isn’t abnormal from men in their late twenties to lose hair as well. The concept of aging is cringed amongst today’s community. Where aging was once a symbol of enlightenment and judiciousness, it is presently essentially looked upon as if the older you get, the more uninteresting one turn out. All this is without doubt not TRUE in most cases. Nonetheless, since this is how the media & current society portrays middle aged men & women, & losing hair is a symbol of getting older, it is no ponder that hair loss may affect one’s self-esteem.

TV shows often portray middle aged men with hair loss as the individuals most doubtful to succeed with getting dates, or being happy in general. The character George Costanza in NBC’s hit TV sitcom, Seinfeld, is the perfect example of this. Costanza was in his late 30’s and suffered classic male pattern hair loss. He quite regularly referred to his hair loss as one of his grea excuses for never succeeding at just about anything in life. Men & women alike both have a tendency to feel self conscious, especially when it comes to the opposite sex. In our culture, a dense, luscious, head of hair is envisaged to be charming, and make one appear more youthful and healthy.

Modern technology is most helpful in restoring hair loss. Advanced hair loss treatments are available to restore your hair & make it look effectively normal as if you had never lost hair to begin with. It is not necessary in this era and age to have to settle with hair restoration. A person’s quality of life doesn’t have to be altered with low confidence when there are so countless advanced hair restoration treatments to choose from. Whether a prescription drug, current remedy, follicle transplants, or laser therapy, there are abounding options that may fit any budgets.

Hair loss treatments are now greatly popular and tried out by both male and female. People who have lost their hair due to cancer and have found it is never to grow back can occasionally be advantageous from advanced hair therapeutics. Even if one are not effectively losing hair, but experiencing from a receding hair line or their hair is thinning, you might benefit from an array of hair loss treatments. The times of counting on fake looking wigs & spray on hair are finished. With so much selections of types of hair loss treatments, people no longer have to live life feeling any less confident than they did in their early 20’s.

Meet Your One Woman Show Who Definitely Gets Great Expectations

Saturday, May 30th, 2009

I cannot say I’m downright comfortable being picky and remain an honest woman. Even then, I’m not unsatisfied in that way, either. I just mention it here as an ear-catching little tidbit foreshadowing what I will shortly discuss honestly.

Last Monday I was walking the dog, Stacey, pondering about signing up for a Dallas Singles dating service. You prolly couldn’t guess that, I stand to the blogosphere as a happy member of the dating service. Seriously, I am. Its very comfortable and full of nice people! If you’ve been paying attention, you’re probably thinking, “You got some ’splainin to do, Lucy!”

Well, I noticed this Great Expectations Dating site and felt encouraged. They’re for the honest singles who care enough to know dating should mean something.

‘Cause I’d never been interested in whatever it is that my friends and my family so aptly entitled “dating.” I heard it all the time. Each night they pester, “Are you seeing somebody?” and “You should date!”

“Ugh, and double ugh.” I say to them, smiling ear to ear. “Not after that last blind date you set me up on.”

“Don’t be silly,” they deadpan. “That’s just an excuse for your cynicism.”

Thankfully, that’s my partner in crime The One-And-Only :-P Patty Wilson. She sets reality directly to my core to set me straight. Loved ones are always there for fresh advice. Can’t argue with that, and I joined.

Returning to the meaning of this post. As I picked from more than three hundred combinations of outfits for my first date with Great Expectations, I realized something deep. For years, I hadn’t allowed myself too many figurative great expectations for dating in the fun-filled journey of being alive. It’s good to be single, even more so if you use the freedom to date. Embracing your own great expectations does wonders for a caring soul.

~Denise Ross

Positive Thinking and Your Creative Mind – 7 Steps to Success

Sunday, April 19th, 2009

You have a bright idea hidden somewhere in the back of your mind that you just can’t wait to test out. The question is, do you really want to bring it out into the light? What could motivate you to churn your creative, inspiring juices to their utmost flavor?

Did you know that it always helps to set a time limit to your personal goals? Set yourself up so you can accomplish the most tasks in record time. For example, mowing the lawn in an hour before the big game on TV. A correct and positive attitude in whatever you do will make things easier, and even enjoyable.

It’s simple. If you begin to allow yourself a bit of positive thinking then you will begin to realize things that you never thought possible. Thinking big is indeed the American Way and that what made our country prosperous. You can follow other great Americans who tapped into their creative mind and began to thing big..

Discover some tips to make it through your first week of possibility thinking even if you’re just sitting in your favorite couch. Your mind is constantly at work for you. Tap into it’s great resource while doing everyday activities.

1. Act. You must take passionate action towards living your life by design. Talk is cheap. Action = deposits in the bank of a passionately authentic future. My mother (probably quoting someone else) always said, “Action speaks louder than words”. Without action, passion is void.

Dreams become reality when you simply start by tinkering with your mind, then with your hands. And if the idea weakens or falters you can always go back to it later until you finish it. Thomas Edison and his Dream Team had to go back to the idea of a light bulb and recalculate it over 1,000 times before the first working light bulb begin to light the world.

2. Love. Commit to yourself. Then commit to those you love to powerfully create a life you can love. Instead of reacting, commit to creating from your heart and soul, out of love rather than fear. The American Dream will always be there, but a dream will still be a dream without motion. Be amazed as the transformation begins.

3. Live. Embrace moments and opportunities. Recognize and embrace the thought that each moment is perfect regardless of its outcome. Every time you hit on something that may appear too extreme why not give it a shot anyway. See if it will work. You may be surprised with the results. If you are not then decide to use that moment to learn from it and make the appropriate shift. Learning and growing from mistakes and failures is a part of living.

4. Be grateful. Dwell completely in a place of gratitude. Learn to utilize what you have in your hands and make use of it in the most constructive way. Necessity is the mother of invention. Have you ever been stuck without something you needed and had to make do with something else? (MacGyver,from the famous tv show, was famous for that!) How grateful were you that you had the means to solve your situation? Slipping into neediness will become less of a habit when you repeatedly shift towards gratitude and away from poverty consciousness.

5. Be Passionate. Use a Passion Formula of Recognize/Reevaluate/Restore in place of the Shoulda/Woulda/Coulda whirlwind. The former is based on increased knowledge and abundance while the latter focuses on scarcity and lack. As you face people or tasks that may seem harder than scaling the summit of the Himalayas, allow yourself to realize that the task is just as important as giving out orders to your subordinates. You would rather be richly passionate!

6. Laugh. Keep humor at the forefront of thought, laughing at and with yourself whenever possible. You may find yourself quite entertaining when you loosen up! I have yet to see a comedian ever go hungry even though his jokes are as ‘old as great-grandma’. Life has too much to offer to allow yourself to mope around in self pity. Humor is very attractive, very passionate: life-giving.

7. Discover Your Purpose. Believe that you are the architect of your destiny. Realizing how you wish to be remembered when you pass from this life is a truly driving force. Your purpose for being can be a seemingly simple as being a great parent to as elaborate as discovering miraculous cures.

When you have a strong purpose no one can take your passionate future from you except for you! Truly, as long as there’s still breath in your body, there is no end to how much you can accomplish in a lifetime. Discovering and following your purpose will enable you to enjoy your work. Celebrate in the discovery that acting on your creative mind’s thoughts is fulfilling your purpose. Watch everything flow into place with perfect, passionate precision.

Activate your positive thinking. Stretch your imagination. Think bigger than you feel comfortable. Act on your thoughts. The number one tip here is action. You want to start practicing these steps.

Think about this: It is unfortunate that so many people still do not use a computer because it appears too complicated to begin using. Or maybe they just keep putting it off till a more convenient time. These are just a couple of limitations one can set up for themselves. Limitations and failure to act on ideas and opportunities leave many as a dim bulb in a dark corner.

Alert! You are not doomed to darkness. You are interested in living a life of purpose and love. The wonderful, creative idea in you is about to be released. You are interested in doing this because you are reading this article. Fortunately if you truly desire something, the will to attain it will open your creative mind to find a way.

Now you need only to begin to act on your desire to create. Act now! Make your path to creativity and follow your purpose. Take your first step today with a positive attitude.

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Don’t Worry, Take Action Instead

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

Life and business all boil down to one simple truth. The ACTION we take provides the result we get.

How many times have you worried about something and lo and behold, that worry became a reality.

Energy moves based on your thoughts and activity. Take a small step in a direction you “think” is worthwhile and more worthwhile things come your way.

Focus is the key. We are all the direct result of the thoughts and activities we embrace.

If the result isn’t what you want, review your thoughts. As an example, if you don’t know what you want in business or life, the unsettling energy of confusion will be the result you gain.

Every thought produces an ACTION. Every ACTION creates a result and every result relates to our experience of life; both personally and professionally.

Even doing nothing is an ACTION. You spent time intentionally avoiding or not doing _____ (you fill in the blank). It was energy spent to produce a result.

The result of the doing nothing was nothing, right? It was also probably worry, stress and anxiety.

What about the many times you produce great results. What happened then?

I’ll bet:

1. You knew what you wanted to accomplish (focus)

2. Saw the path to reach that goal clearly. (clarity)

3. Knew the steps you had to follow (processes)

4. Stayed the course to complete the goal (attention)

5. Produced a result (outcome) and moved on to produce another result from the same ACTION (energy).

If you and I know these things, why don’t we consistently produce the results we want in life?

Answer. It takes time to focus, get clear, develop processes, keep our attention focused on one thing to completion and continue to produce the result.

Most people are too busy RE-acting to the events of the day.

They let interruptions like phone calls, co- workers, non-essential meetings e-mail and myriad of “stuff” take up ACTION energy during each day.

The solution is to create a roadmap for your life. To begin accomplishing this simply ask yourself, “What do I want to accomplish that I am not accomplishing now?”

Then consider,”What am I doing each day to reach my true life destination?”

To achieve any desired outcome you must be focused and clear and taking ACTION that matters to you.

What can you do with this new information

1. Sit quietly and consider what you REALLY want to accomplish in your life. Write down what comes to you.

2. What ACTION do you have to take to reach the result you’re looking for? List each ACTION, step-by-step.

3. Plan and schedule. Take focused ACTION to move one step closer to your true life goal every day.

4. Produce the result and move on to the next result. When your process works, don’t stop (the majority of people do). Keep moving forward and continue to use the same ACTION to produce more and greater results.

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Bill brings clear, simple and focused action steps to any business building program that spotlights controlling time, methods and mindset to stand out from the crowd. When in control of these 3 variables, business people can realize greater achievement and business growth in less time, with maximum enjoyment and minimal stress.

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